Monday, July 30, 2007

"....no, I didn't go last week.....I had nothing to wear, and neither did the kids..."

Have you ever said that? Most people have, at one time or another.
But........

What do you mean people at Journey wear JEANS? (GASP!!)
We are pretty non traditional about dress, Yes.
It’s never been a big deal.



If God’s the father and the church is our family, should we view going to church services as a formal event or a family event? What would you wear to a family reunion? A tie? A starched shirt? Dress & heels?



If we are to welcome the poor and otherwise socially outcast, does a dress code essentially push those people away from our churches?

If people become overly worried about their appearance instead of their heart, are they like the Pharisees that Jesus chastised for only washing the outside of the proverbial cup?

Is the church building somehow a magical sacred building like the Old Testament Temples? Or is it simply a place where God's people gather that is no more sacred than the homes we live in?

Do we think that Jesus, who was born in a barn, was dressed up when He held church outdoors?

Why should we press for formal dress in church when one of the only passages in the New Testament that speaks about what to wear to church rebukes women for dressing up to the degree that they turned church into a fashion show of sorts?(1 Timothy 2:9-10)



NIV version: “I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.”

At our church Jeff & Ryan usually preach in a button-up shirts or polos, & jeans. Our worship bands, known as the Praise Band, play in t-shirts, jeans, and flip-flops (except Taylor, he is shoe-less).
Guess what. No one listening to them notices. I bet there are a lot that have attended that have never seen Taylor’s socks.




God is everywhere all the time. So, before you ever got to church, you were in the presence of God. He saw your hair sticking up in 25 different directions this morning, before your shower, before you brushed your teeth, or your hair. He has seen you at your physical worst, so the idea that you are going to impress God with your appearance goes *poof*. Up in smoke.



Christianity teaches us all that OUR bodies are the temple of God, not the church building itself. For that matter, Christians are the Church and not the building, so here too the idea that you are "going" to ‘God's house’ falls flat. If you are saved, you can't leave God's house because you are already there, all the time. Ya never go elsewhere. Make sense?


"Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and [that] the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?"1 Corinthians 3:16"What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?"1 Corinthians 6:19


Christ did not judge people based on appearance alone. He was a poor carpenter, so it would be really hypocritical if he said the poor are not welcome because they cannot afford khakis and a tie. Christianity is about your soul. Not who, where, or what you ‘seem’ to be. Anyone can put on a front for two hours a week on Sundays. It has to be real. Anyone can say I really care about people, blah-blah, but truthfully, human beings can smell a hypocrite a mile away, surely no one thinks that God can't? You have to love your brother (every other human being on the planet) for REAL! You can't fake anything with God. To God everyone is equal, whether they are wearing a gorgeous silk skirt and high heels, or dressed like a homeless person off the street. (Did Christ die for the homeless as well at the rich....?..........think so…) God judges the heart, not what you wear.

****all this was brought on by a story in the Ar Dem Gaz Saturday about appropriate church attire*** :)

9 comments:

Anonymous,  July 30, 2007 at 9:08:00 PM CDT  

Great post. This is like Jeff's post on Christians vs. Christ-follower. I think people are too worried about what they look like on the outside and not enough on the inside.

Misty July 30, 2007 at 9:27:00 PM CDT  

I think a lot of people view "dressing up for church" as bringing their best to God. But in reality are they just trying to impress others????

Anonymous,  July 30, 2007 at 9:37:00 PM CDT  

It is true that God sees your heart, but we must also bring him our best, inside and out. That doesn't mean that we should be overly concerned with our outward apperance but we should show the proper respect at His place of worship. Dressing in a sloppy or in an otherwise unkempt or "I don't care what I look like" way does not bring praise and honor to His name.

Anonymous,  July 31, 2007 at 12:26:00 AM CDT  

This was a great response, Shelley. Thanks for your authenticity and passion to remove all barriers for all people to come to Christ.

While I understand where Anonymous is coming from, and I myself seek to dress "up" - whether I'm teaching or not, I certainly don't look down on or condemn what anyone else chooses to wear. If they are at peace about it with the Lord, then it's none of my business, unless their attire is absurdly distracting or indecent on a consistent basis. We can all have a "bad hair" day or a bad outfit day. ;)

Shelley July 31, 2007 at 7:43:00 AM CDT  

"his place of worship" is everywhere we go, right?

K.T. is Mommatude July 31, 2007 at 10:50:00 AM CDT  

That was really well written and thought provoking...You are doing a great job!!!!

I think Journey,itself,may want to advertise its "Come as you are" stance...Alot of people would love that!

Diana Harton July 31, 2007 at 11:37:00 AM CDT  

Great Post Shelly....you have a great natural writing ability. I have a feeling you are never at a loss for words.

Ryan Morgan July 31, 2007 at 9:04:00 PM CDT  

I personally want to dress up a little bit when I preach. But honestly I don't think about it much. I do remember feeling that I had to look a certain way in order to fit in at other churches. But, what can I say I'm a guy I really don't care what other think as long as my wife says I look good!!! :) But truly God does desire our best and I believe that includes all aspects of our lives. Does our best mean we must dress a certain way? Sure it does. He doesn't want any of us flaunting around in clothes that are toooo tight or show way toooo much skin. The passage above mention modesty, and we need to remember that when we dress. We should ask ourselves the question (Does this outfit honor God?) If you can say yes then wear it. If not then change into something that you can wear that honors God.

Anonymous,  August 2, 2007 at 10:58:00 AM CDT  

I agree with Shelley AND anonymous. BUT if you dress differently for church than you do when you go to Walmart, then you are saying God is my church building but not in Walmart. I believe everyone should look respectable (doesn't mean dressed up) wherever they go. (If you're gardening or something, you get a pass!)

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