tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3301433205520459454.post5637177874517106303..comments2023-10-22T06:11:48.312-05:00Comments on Wherever Life Takes Us: Resolutions.Shelleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09624035112796384643noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3301433205520459454.post-19900543835413355252008-01-03T14:11:00.000-06:002008-01-03T14:11:00.000-06:00Someone told me once that we are while we there is...Someone told me once that we are while we there is a commandment to forgive, there is no timeline on how fast we should do so - I think as long as we are striving towards forgiveness - especially with those people who don't ask for forginvenss, then we are doing our best. I have to work on this all the time, I hold grudges and I think this is an awesome resolution!Debbihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00362129955505312739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3301433205520459454.post-63194802049486382742008-01-03T07:16:00.000-06:002008-01-03T07:16:00.000-06:00That is an awesome resolution. How often we move ...That is an awesome resolution. How often we move along and forget (or say we forget) but we never really forget. Good luck. We miss you guys.Lou Arnoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13954838282202168879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3301433205520459454.post-63987332644984542162008-01-03T06:50:00.000-06:002008-01-03T06:50:00.000-06:00ah... forgiveness! one of the most difficult thin...ah... forgiveness! one of the most difficult things we'll ever be called on to do. trust probably runs a close second :-) my wife has a very hard time with trusting people, and i, while not completely naive, tend to trust a lot... so it can cause a lot of friction at times.<BR/><BR/>back to forgiveness... i posted on this a while back, but i'm not here to plug my blog (this time :-) i'm not sure we can truly forgive if we aren't willing to forget (and maybe forgetting isn't an act of will, so perhaps what i should say is that IF we truly forgive, by default we will be able to forget). bottom line is that i don't think you can achieve one without the other. it's how God forgives (casts our sins as far as the east is from the west, never to be brought back up again). and while we aren't God and never will be, we are to strive for that. <B>DISCLAIMER</B>: <I>i by no means have this down pat, and it's easier said than done, but it's what i understand to be the biblical standard of forgiveness.</I><BR/><BR/>as far as only being able to forgive someone if they are truly sorry for what they did, i think a look at what Jesus said as he was being nailed to the cross ("Father forgive them for they know not what they do") would tell us that even though it was highly unlikely that neither the roman soldiers nor the jewish leaders that called for Him to be put to death were sorry for what they did, Jesus still asked forgiveness for them.<BR/><BR/>additionally, He died for us for the forgiveness of our sins long before we were born, much less had the opportunity to BE sorry (of course if we never avail ourselves of His forgiveness it doesnt help us a bit). in fact, i would venture to say that all of us were included in the "Father forgive them..." statement, since if you really think about it, it was ultimately OUR SINS that put Jesus up on the cross.<BR/><BR/>there's a saying that is very profound to me: "resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die." forgiveness is more for our sake than it is for the sake of the person who wronged us. <BR/><BR/>again, not trying to be preachy here, because this is a daily struggle for me, but it's what i understand our responsibilities to be if we are to be obedient to the call to forgive. <BR/><BR/>and if anyone believes i DID sound preachy or condescending, i hope you'll forgive me :-)deanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14744828324473793583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3301433205520459454.post-35494309213204874932008-01-02T17:34:00.000-06:002008-01-02T17:34:00.000-06:00I think you and I are somewhere on the same plane ...I think you and I are somewhere on the same plane with forgiveness.I like to forgive,I would like to think that I do forgive,after all,seemingly, I am over everything very quickly,but in any case,if it is a severe wronging-then I am certainly not going to forget it.Heck,sometimes I even find a way to make it my fault...LOL.But I am also that person that if someone wrongs me too severely,then I am done with them.I can be civil,but I would still be done.It's not necessarily the right way to be,but I strive to turn over every bad leaf I own...LOL.I do think forgiveness is important,especially when it comes to relationships that are very important to one's self.<BR/><BR/>I make stupid mistakes all the time,I do,but I can only keep striving to do better.I just hope that those who love me can overlook those stupid mistakes,at least some of the time. ;)K.T. is Mommatudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05130828845169072102noreply@blogger.com